Sunday, April 12, 2009

bagaikan langit dan bumi

everyone is different. i know this.
and yet, there are times when i do or say things that seems crass and insensitive.
it is unintentional, believe me.
maybe it's the lack of understanding. or that i'm treading on unfamiliar grounds.
in trying to understand, i bulldoze sometimes.
and forget that not everyone sees things through my eyes.

the end result is the same.
i hurt the other person.
once, twice and if unchecked, repeatedly.
this pains me. a lot.
as much, if not more than what they feel.

and true to my nature,
i will step back. sometimes way back.
it's not something that i want to do.
but it's probably something that i must do.
to let the person decide where they would like to go,
in the process of "relationship" building.

to move forward, the bond strengthens.

to them in the "fallout", it was never meant to be...

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